Monday, October 21, 2013

Paris: The Sights

Paris, oh Paris.  I already loved Paris before I ever went there, and it did not disappoint.  While my realist husband pointed out the good and not-so-good (“There are cigarette butts everywhere!”), I refused to see it with anything other than rose colored glasses.

I belong in Paris.

In the first of a four-part series on my experiences and observations in the City of Light, I will share some of the sights that made our trip an unforgettable adventure.


Paris:  The Sights


After landing at Charles de Gaulle Airport, figuring out which Metro tickets to purchase, and taking the train into the city, we emerged from the underground mazes and tunnels to a clear blue sky and the Arc de Triomphe in front of our very eyes.  Dragging our luggage against the cobblestone streets, we walked toward the Arc and down one of the many off-shooting streets to our hotel.  As we turned onto our street, I immediately noticed the hotel sign while Jayson, who is blessed to not share my tunnel vision, looked just past the sign to the Eiffel Tower at the end of the street.


Gasp!


We stood in awe for a few minutes, staring at that iconic symbol of Paris, right there, in person, welcoming us – Bienvenue a Paris!


Once we settled into our room (which we changed three times, but that’s another story), we ventured out to get a closer look at the Arc de Triomphe.  Walking just a couple of blocks, there it was – so close, and yet so far – on an island surrounded by a circular road with racing cars, buses, and motorcycles with seemingly no break.  Hmmm.  How would we get across the moat of traffic to reach the island of the Arc?


Attempting to cross the roundabout directly would have been suicide, so Jayson suggested we walk in a circle, looking for a way across.  We quickly found an underground tunnel – success!  We decided not to go to the top, and instead walked all around it and under it.  This “Triumphal Arch” honors those who fought and died for France in the French Revolutionary War and the Napoleonic War, with the names of all French victories and generals inscribed on its inner and outer surfaces.  Beneath its vault lies the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier from World War I, and its eternal flame.


One of the many streets shooting off the Arc de Triomphe is the Champs Elysees, one of the world’s most famous streets.  Once known as a high-end shopping destination, it’s lost a lot of its charm to touristy destinations, including H&M, Zara, Adidas and McDonald’s.  However, it still houses Cartier, Hermes, Guerlain, and my favorite, Laduree.



We visited Notre-Dame Cathedral, with its incredible French Gothic architecture, though the gargoyles on the outside of the building really creeped us out.  The line to get in was long but it moved quickly.  We were able to witness a mass in progress as well as communion.  The art was rich and the stained glass incomparable to anything we’ve seen.  It was definitely odd having a gift shop right in the church – exchanging money at the temple, anyone?  But it really was magnificent, inside and out.  As we left, we walked through the gardens along the Seine River and decided to cross one of the many bridges and wander through the streets of the fifth arrondissement.


Much to our amusement, we happened to walk across the Pont de l'Archevêché, one of two “love locks” bridges.  The story goes that a couple writes their names on a padlock and locks it onto one of the bridges.  They then throw the key into the Seine River as a symbol of their undying love.  Yes, we left our names on the bridge.  Come on, it’s Paris!  It was impressive just how many locks were on both sides of the bridge – not something you see every day.


We loved walking through the Latin Quarter, in the fifth and sixth arrondissements.  One day we happened upon a photo shoot right in the street.  We also passed by the Sorbonne University, and from there the Palais du Luxembourg.  We bought ice cream and walked through the gates, seeing children floating sailboats in the fountains and thinking how much fun Silas and James would have here.  We walked around, stopping to look at the many statues.  Finally, we went to the gardens and planted ourselves down, ready for our favorite activity of all time:  people watching.  We observed many groups of students on the lawns, families with young children, professor types, and many young lovers.  They all came equipped with blankets, baguettes of fromage et jambon (ham and cheese), and other treats.  Many were napping.  We could easily tell the European students from the American ones (the French don’t sit criss cross applesauce).  We enjoyed a lazy afternoon until a light sprinkle cleared the lawn.


While Jayson and I aren’t touristy people, we accepted that as first-timers in Paris, we were indeed tourists.  And so we happily made our way to the Louvre, taking the typical photos in front of I. M. Pei’s glass pyramids.  The museum opened in 1793, and the building itself is as much a work of art as the masterpieces it houses.  Our first stop was the Mona Lisa – by far it’s most famous work.  She was encased in glass behind a velvet rope with throngs of visitors physically fighting to get close to her.  I was elbowed by at least two Asian tourists, and I may or may not have elbowed back.  Once that was out of the way, we took our time exploring the rest of the museum.  It was overwhelmingly breathtaking.  Room after room, hall after hall, one work of genius after another.  My absolute favorite was Venus de Milo.  Even armless she was stunning.  After about three hours, Jayson was losing steam.  I would say, “Just one more room!” only to find that the room was actually a wing containing countless more rooms!  During our fourth hour we started getting kooky, as evidenced by some of our photos.


We also visited the Place Vendome, with the Vendome Column, originally erected by Napoleon, in the center of the square.  We sat on the steps in front of the Opera National de Paris, looking out onto the city.  It reminded me a bit of Times Square, but a lot prettier!


We took the Metro to Montmartre, a hill in northern Paris with spectacular views of the city.  It was a really fun area, full of artists.  Dali, Picasso, Monet and Van Gogh used to work or have studios in this area.  We saw the “I Love You:  The Wall” monument in the center of the Abbesses garden. The wall was created by two artists – Frederic Baron and Claire Kito – as a rendezvous location for lovers and a lasting monument to eternal adoration.  It’s over 40 square meters and has 612 tiles of enameled lava.  The phrase “I love you” is written more than a thousand times in over 300 languages, including Armenian!


From there we walked up the countless stairs to the Sacre-Coeur Basilica (Sacred Heart).  It is majestic – white, historic, inviting.  Photographs are not allowed inside the church and they enforced the rule rigorously!  Jayson dared defy it and he got scolded.  There was no service in progress but the gift shop was bustling!  We sat on the steps outside and stared over the hill onto the city.  We caught our breath and then made our way to the steps, which were a lot easier on the way down.



Finally, our sweet Eiffel Tower.  That beautiful, iconic, rusty tower that encapsulates the romance of Paris.  It was walking distance from our hotel and we must have visited it at least ten times during the week – in the morning, in the afternoon while eating a pain au chocolat on the lawn, in the evening to see it lit up up close, again in the evening to watch the lights sparkle on the hour, and again from the day from the Trocadero for a different angle.  Every time it caught our eye – whether walking around, on the Metro, or at another landmark – we stopped and stared.  It never got old.  We also took the tour up to the tippy top of the tower, and it was majestic.  I’m not gonna lie, it was a little scary going up, but despite the overcast weather that day, the peak was perfectly still – not a breeze to be felt.  We walked in circles taking in Paris from all angles, then went down to the lower floor for another spin.


We passed on visiting Versailles because that would have meant leaving the city, and I didn’t want to part from Paris for even a moment.  Seven days was not enough.  We saw plenty but there was certainly more to see.  Alas, next time.

Next up, Paris:  The Food

OK, I’m getting off my shoebox now.

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Never-Ending Moments



It’s interesting, how life works.

I grew up in a city with a never-ending winter.  It would get chilly in September (Indian summers were rare), and sometimes snow in October.  I remember more than one Halloween with flurries on the ground.  I’d skip our high school football games on Thanksgiving morning – mostly because I hate football – but also because it was freezing!  I’d wake up extra early to clean the snow and ice off the car.  It would get dark around 4:30pm.  My sister’s birthday is on March 31 – we celebrated during many blizzards.  It felt like winter would never end.

My sister (left), Mr. Snowman, Me (right)
Winter, early 80s
And now, I live in a city with a never-ending summer.  Once it heats up, it stays hot.  It rains once – maybe twice – from May through October.  The jeans and sweaters and boots get put away for a long time.  The air conditioner runs all day.  It’s 95 degrees by 10am.  I get tired of shaving.  The kids go back to school in mid-August – it was 109 degrees their first week of school.  “You don’t shovel sun,” I like to say, but even that gets old.  Costco already has their Halloween costumes and Nativity scenes on the sales floor, but I still need sunscreen.

My sister (left), Dad, Me
Our annual summer trip down the Cape
Early 80s
I’m ready for some temperate temperatures.  Crisp breezes and crunchy leaves.  Dark jeans and wedge boots.  Hot chocolate and fuzzy scarves.

Is there a city with a never-ending autumn?

OK, I’m getting off my shoebox now.

Monday, June 17, 2013

Home


We haven’t gone out for ice cream in a while, so since we’re on summer break I thought I’d take the boys this week.

I was thinking I’d get a cone of cookies & cream (my favorite) with some jimmies on top.

And then I thought, no one here knows what jimmies are.

I guess I could just say sprinkles.  But I don’t want to say sprinkles.  I want to say jimmies.

Sometimes I really miss home.

OK, I’m getting off my shoebox now.


Saturday, June 8, 2013

The Raw Truth



I was chatting with a friend today when she happened to mention that she doesn’t read many blogs because they tend to show the “perfect” side of peoples’ lives.  This got me wondering if my blog does that.  Do I only show the good and hide the bad?  It’s important to be authentic and real and not pretend everything is always just right, because the truth is that things aren’t just right more often than they are.  Life is messy, relationships are messy, and most of all, kids are messy.  I have a life, many relationships, and two kids.  So in the spirit of honesty, I’m here to share a few not-so-fine moments in my life:

·      Everyone who knows me knows that I can’t cook.  My children eat lots of shells and cheese, croissant sandwiches, and chicken nuggets.  I try my best, but this is a major area of failure for me.
·      When Jayson and I started dating, I lived in Boston and he lived in Fresno.  I would call him every night before I went to sleep to say good night, and he insisted that we pray together before we got off the phone.  It took a LONG time for me to get used to it, but now I’m grateful because it has enriched our marriage very much.  However, I have to confess that there are many, many nights when I get into bed, lay my head on my pillow – and completely pass out.  Prayers are forgotten, but I know I’m forgiven.
·      My kids often eat dinner while watching tv.  There, I said it.
·      Jayson and I fight.  We are different in a lot of ways, and we are both opinionated and strong-willed.  We get angry, we have it out, we give each other space, and then we make up.  I hate that we argue, but we do.
·      I spend way too much time on facebook.  I lack self-control in this area.  I enjoy keeping up with my friends and family all over the world.  I know that my time can be much better spent on more productive things, but I like facebook.

I could easily go on, but I won’t.  I know I’m not perfect, but surprisingly, my desire for perfection ends up paralyzing me instead of motivating me.  There’s always something that can be better, cleaner, or more organized, but my family is healthy and we live for the Lord and, ultimately, that’s all that matters.

And I’ll try to remind myself of that the next time Jayson and I fight about the boys eating chicken nuggets in front of the tv while I’m on facebook.

OK, I’m getting off my shoebox now.

Saturday, June 1, 2013

The Crappiest Week Ever – Literally



We had a very unwelcome visitor in our home last week – the dreaded stomach bug.  It started with James; my poor baby was puking and pooping around the clock for days.  Then it hit Jayson and, finally, me.  Thankfully, Silas was spared, and we sent him off to my in-laws’ for a few days to get him out of our germy house.

It was a roller coaster of a week, both physically and emotionally.  Now that we’re all well – and the house has been sanitized – a few thoughts on the week from Hades:

·      It is really, really hard to watch your child suffer.  I don’t mean to overdramatize the situation, as there are many parents dealing with much more difficult circumstances, but seeing your baby in pain, retching constantly, and abnormally lethargic is heartbreaking and frightening.
·      It is really, really hard to deal with watching your child suffer when you are suffering yourself.  Add to that a suffering partner, and it equals a tragically pathetic condition.  I became very emotional this week – keeping James by my side for several nights, and wishing my Mom was around to take care of me.  Ugh.
·      For all my whining about wanting another baby, I think last week wrapped up that desire and tossed it in the garbage.  I haven’t cleaned up that much poop and puke since the boys were babies.  Yeah, I’m definitely over it.
·      Speaking of poop, I’ve never been so happy to hear James plop a solid poop since he was potty training.  Many of our discussions centered around the consistency of our poop, hearkening back to our days in Karabagh when this was our normal breakfast conversation:  “I’m at 60%, how about you?”  I know it’s nasty, but anyone who’s traveled overseas will relate.
·      I did a lot of laundry last week.  A lot.  Somehow the Lord gave me the strength to get this much-needed chore completed.
·      God is good in so many ways.  At my absolute worst, Jayson was feeling a little better.  Then when he got really bad, I started to feel better.  Feeble and pitiful on our own, together we managed to be somewhat useful.
·      I drank some Sprite one day to settle my stomach.  I had not had any soda in 13 years, but it did seem to help.
·      On the plus side, I read about nine magazines that had piled up around the house.  Happy to be rid of those!
·      On the negative side, I lost four pounds in five days and still don’t have much of an appetite.
·      In the pit of pain for several days, God helped me keep my perspective.  I knew we’d get over it, even though it felt like it might last forever.  We prayed constantly, and He answered.  Many friends and family checked in regularly – those messages, texts, and calls gave encouragement that accelerated our healing.  Thank you!

OK, I’m getting off my shoebox now.

Monday, May 13, 2013

Blush Flush


I’ve never been much of a makeup person.  I especially don’t like the feeling of too much stuff on my skin.  But I realized something today that somewhat grossed me out.  I’ve had the same blush for almost 10 years.

I didn’t wear blush until my early 30s.  Until then, I stuck to mascara, lipstick, powder, and maybe some eyeliner and shadow for special occasions.  But then I noticed how pale I looked in photos, so I thought it was time to get some color on my face.

I went to the Bobbi Brown counter in Fresno, picked out a pretty pink powder blush, and bought some brushes.  I’ve used it sparingly, for church and special occasions.  And now, quite literally almost a decade later, that blush container is almost empty.  Which leads me to two thoughts:


1)      Time to buy new blush.

2)      I probably should have thrown this blush out eight years ago.  I can’t think about the possibility of how many germs are in there after so long.


Please grab your makeup bag or whatever you keep your cosmetics in and dump it out onto a clean countertop.  Spread everything out and toss anything that’s broken, dirty, or just plain nasty.  If it’s unopened, it’s safe to keep.  But once they’re exposed to air, ingredients will lose their color or staying power.


I know, I know - more pens than makeup.

Here’s the shelf life of different types of makeup:
  • 2 Months:  Mascara
  • 6-9 Months:  Moisturizer with SPF; Liquid Eyeliner; BB Cream
  • 1 Year:  Foundation; Moisturizer without SPF; Concealer; Cream Blush; Eye Pencils; Lip Liners; Color Sticks/Stain
  • 12-18 Months:  Lipstick; Powder; Bronzer; Eye Shadow
  • 2 Years:  Nail Polish 
Throw away anything that’s expired so you don’t expose yourself to any bacteria.  (And now you have a great excuse to go makeup shopping.)  You might want to use a skinny Sharpie to mark the date of purchase on the label of your makeup from now on.  Also, stop by Sally’s Beauty Supply and pick up some makeup brush cleaning solution and clean those puppies, too! 
 
OK, I’m getting off my shoebox now.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Jargon Bargain


A few weeks ago my cousin Staci sent me the following message:

Some of us (or maybe just me...?) wish we had a better fashion vocabulary.  I love fashion but don’t always know the names of certain fabrics and styles.  I use “thingy” a lot when describing fashion.  So maybe a fashion vocab lesson?

I put the word out on facebook and asked people if there are fashion terms they’d like defined.  I’ve compiled a short list of definitions and pronunciations.  If you think of any more, leave them in the comments for a future post!
Definitions:

·     BB Cream – BB or “beauty balm” cream is an all-in-one facial cream.  It combines serum, moisturizer, primer, foundation, and sunblock, and can be worn alone as a moisturizer, over moisturizer as a foundation, or under powder.  They’ve been very popular in the Asian market and started to be introduced in the Western market last year.


·     CC Cream – CC or “color control” cream is a refined BB cream developed in Korea.  It’s widely used in Asia to provide natural looking skin coverage, with better blending and lighter coverage than BB creams.  Some brands call it “correcting combo” or “complete correction” cream.


·     Bonded or Double-Faced Ruffles – This is a ruffle (a gathered strip of fabric) where you can see the top and underside of the ruffle.  A ruffle may be one color on top, bonded with a different color fabric underneath.


·     Bouclé – This is a woven or knitted fabric with a looped texture.  Think of the fabric of a classic Chanel jacket.
Classic Chanel boucle suits
·     Chiffon – This is a lightweight, sheer fabric made from cotton, silk or synthetic fibers.  It’s commonly used in eveningwear, especially as an overlay.
Pretty pink chiffon
·     Maillot – Maillot (“my-yo”) is simply the French word for a one-piece swimsuit.
 

·     Monochromatic – This means dressing in one color from head to toe.
Monochromatic looks
·     Palazzo Pants – These are long pants with a loose, extremely wide leg flaring out from the waist.  They’re usually made from lightweight fabrics and are popular in the summer.
Palazzo pants - old and new
 ·     Prorsum – “Prorsum” is a Latin word that means “forwards.”  It is part of the Equestrian Knight Logo that the British fashion house Burberry developed in 1901.  Burberry is best known for their trench coats and check print (created in the 1920s).  Burberry Prorsum is one of Burberry’s brands.
Burberry's Equestrian Knight Logo ("Prorsum" is written on the banner)
·     Ready-to-Wear – Also known as “prêt-a-porter” in French, this term means that the clothes are made in standard sizes and sold in finished condition, and can be worn off the rack, as opposed to custom-made clothing.
 

·     Toile – Toile is commonly known as muslin in the United States.  It’s basically a cheap, unbleached cotton or canvas material used to create patterns when making clothing.
A pattern being made of toile, or muslin, on a dress form
Pronunciations:

·     Empire Waist – This is when an item of clothing has a very high waistline – usually just under the bustline.  It’s very flattering in that the garment generally flows down from the bust, not clinging to the rest of the body.  In English, we pronounce is em-pyre, as in the Empire State Building.  But the French pronounce it om-peer.  Either one works!
An elegant dress with an empire waist



And now, the correct pronunciation of some well-known designers and brands:


·        Carolina Herrera:  cah-ro-lee-nah ay-reh-rah
·        Givenchy:  zhee-von-shee
·        Guerlain:  gair-lahn
·        Hermes:  air-mez
·        Lanvin:  lahn-vahn
·        L’Occitane:  lox-ee-tan
·        Louboutin:  loo-boo-tan
·        Louis Vuitton:  loo-ee vee-tonn
·        Marchesa:  mar-kay-sah
·        Moschino:  moh-skee-no
·        Proenza Schouler:  pro-en-za skool-er
·        Rodarte:  ro-dar-tay
·        Rochas:  ro-shoss
·        Shu Eumera:  shoo yoo-ay-muh-rah
·        Yves Saint Laurent:  eve sahn la-rahn 

Hope this was helpful!  OK, I’m getting off my shoebox now.